But…how?????

Posted by Deb on Saturday November 22, 2008 at 8:49 pm

Fourteen years ago (ignoring the time-difference between the UK and Canada), I was in hospital, experiencing the beginning of the induction of the labour of my first child. Nothing would happen overnight, but I would spend the following day in labour, and give birth shortly after midnight.

This evening after dinner, that first child was given an electric shaver, as a birthday gift.

I can’t believe it’s been fourteen years since I first looked into Barney’s face. I remember being awed by the process which started with an ovum and a sperm, and produced a baby. I’m still awed by that process, but I’m perhaps even more astonished at how that baby turns into…well, almost a man.

Fourteen years. A lifetime. And somehow, also, the blink of an eye.

In: babies, family, life

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Comment by SallyM Subscribed to comments via email
2008-11-22 21:42:53

Happy Birthday Barney. And a razor? Please stop scaring me *whimper*

 
Comment by lotusbirther Subscribed to comments via email
2008-11-23 00:14:02

aww, congratulations to you all on this milestone birthday of the boy-man born at the magical hour of midnight

 
Comment by Ann Newstead Subscribed to comments via email
2008-11-23 08:55:06

It is scary, isn’t it?! I felt that way when Josh was 13 last month - and he doesn’t need the razor yet (though he IS looking kinda “fluffy”!).

Suddenly, I look at him and see a young man. *shiver* scary and oh so AWESOME too! I look at him and find the same sense of awe and amazement actually that I felt looking at him, my firstborn, and thinking wow, I had something to do with that!

Even though these days it is more “he’s like this despite me, rather than because of me”! xx

 
Comment by lotusbirther Subscribed to comments via email
2008-11-23 16:56:18

ITA: awesome is an excellent word to use. I feel the same way about our five year old but I am sure I will feel it even more strongly as you do by the teen years. It is both wondrous and scary to contemplate all at the same time so I shall get back to enjoying now as practice for enjoying it then.
I wonder if our feelings will change once our children are adults? Or will it just be different? The hormone-driven growth of the brain/body finishes at about age 20? or does that just develop in a different way then?

 

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