Growing up

Posted by Deb on Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:14 pm

Today did not start well; I’d a headache when I fell asleep last night and it was worse each time I woke during the night. By the time this morning arrived, I was feeling sick, and it took a while for me to feel even vaguely human. Fortunately by lunchtime it was mostly gone and I was nearly back to normal (for me LOL)

Barney and Henry worked together in the morning, with Henry writing about his stay here so far and Barney correcting bits of what he wrote. In the afternoon we took a trip to Toys’R'Us - and I realised that how irritating I find that store is positively-correlated with the number of children accompanying me. Alone, I find it annoying. With one child, it’s slightly worse. With six children - well, let’s just say that those who believe in doing penance are missing a great opportunity there.

We went because Henry wanted to buy a Bionicle of his own (like there aren’t already about 37 here) and because we need more swimming-bags. Henry got a Bionicle (not the one he wanted, but he’s happy anyway), but there were no swimming bags to be found. Half-way through the store, I realised I’d probably have had a better chance on ebay.

George and Freddy have signed up for a sports club thing that happens every Monday for the next few weeks, so I left them off at the leisure centre, then brought Barney and Henry home, since they had plans to meet their friend N, before going to collect Scratchy. We came home and heated up the potato-and-carrot soup I’d made yesterday, and I got a head-start on tomorrow’s dinner - I’m so organised ;-) Barney and Henry headed out with N for a while, then came back to ask if they could go to a club at his school tonight - table-tennis and pool and stuff like that, as far as I can gather. I said that was fine, but by the time dinner was over, Barney’s attitude had descended into grumpy, resentful and eye-rolling and since he didn’t seem fit for human company, he went to bed early instead. Henry has gone off to the club with N - the first time he’s done something like that on his own since he got here, and it feels really odd - to me! LOL His English has already improved quite a lot, and I don’t think he’ll have much trouble (apart, possibly, from being the centre of attention - though I don’t think he’ll mind that too much ;-)) - but I feel a bit… well, like he’s growing up too fast or something! How nuts am I? LOL

edit at 9.44 p.m. - Henry is back, safe and sound and having had a good time :-)

Back to Barney’s mood this evening - we’ve had quite a bit of that recently and I have to say it’s not a part of parenting I’m finding thrilling. Another aspect of it is that he’s decided he doesn’t want to have his photo “all over the internet” in case “somebody sees me in the street and recognises me” (because my blog is soooo widely-read…) I suspect this is more to do with being awkward than anything else, but I’ve agreed that posts with photos will be private from now on - i.e. only visible if you’re logged in. I’ll put the posts up publicly at first, then change them to private a few days later, unless his sudden desire for privacy increases :roll: I’ll also be making my Flickr photos private, but I think most of the people who look at those either read here or are contacts there anyway.

Freddy’s just come home from ju-jitsu and disappeared to bed without saying a word - he must be tired, because usually I get a run-down of how things went.

I just discovered that a change I made last week resulted in my blog sidebar getting messed up when viewed in IE. So to those reading in IE - sorry! But why did nobody tell me? And why are you using IE anyway, when there are so many far far better options? ;-)

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Comment by Merry
2006-10-03 12:07:41

Sick in the morning? Hm….?

Comment by Deb
2006-10-03 14:20:45

Yes, I was - and no, I’m not! Don’t you start spreading rumours - I still haven’t forgiven you for the laughing-at-more-Christmas-shopping thing! ;-)

 
 
Comment by Ruth
2006-10-03 16:09:11

I never noticed your sidebar was wrong and I have IE.:)

Comment by Deb
2006-10-03 20:33:54

Eh, maybe it’s just on my small laptop screen then. S’pose I could have looked on one of the desktops, but I’ve reduced the size of the button that was causing the problem now anyway.

 
 
Comment by Joyce
2006-10-03 16:41:45

I’ve got IE7, and it was fine on that. I rather like it actually. I never really got the hang of firefox - loads of sites I need for work don’t load properly with it, so I just gave up.

Comment by Deb
2006-10-03 20:35:09

I used to find I needed IE for a couple of sites, but since Firefox…uh, something like 0.88, everything works on it for me. I prefer to avoid anything from MS unless there really is no alternative!

 
 
Comment by alison
2006-10-03 19:59:12

Do you think part of B’s grumpiness could be because of having Henry there? When you’ve always been the eldest, having someone coming along and almost taking your place (and certainly having far more novelty value than you) must be really hard. Hope it all settles down soon xxx

Comment by Deb
2006-10-03 20:36:54

Yes, I think that might be part of it, but I don’t think it’s a huge part. We’d a chat this morning and he’s been loads better today; will blog about it shortly.

 
 
Comment by Gill
2006-10-05 10:57:49

I refreshed and it didn’t help. I also couldn’t see my own comments on your blog for some bizarre reason! Am on my AOL browser ATM & all looks fine. I suspect I’ll have to delete my cookies to fix the Opera thing?

 

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