Some blether about how we home-educate
Thought it was about time I wrote something about home-education rather than just posting photos of children, however adorable they may be
Although it’s still summertime for the schoolies, we’ve been doing a bit of schoolwork/seatwork/whatever this week - the weather’s dull and wet, and we can always take days off when it’s sunny
As I’ve mentioned before, we’re a bit more formal now than we used to be, for a variety of reasons. It’s autonomous in some ways: I follow the boys’ interests and we take as long as we want over the topics that appeal to them - plus we’re flexible enough to change our minds about what we do and when. I do suggest topics and activities I think they’d enjoy though, and in some ways, we’re actually very schoolish: I plan what they’ll study, and we have a rough schedule for when we’ll do certain things. We also make use of workbooks, though we also make use of lots of non-workbooks too. Right now our favourites include the Usborne Children’s Book of Art, a wonderful book about Shakespeare by Michael Rosen and the Kingfisher Encyclopedia of British History. Of course we also use resources from the internet and a variety of other sources. Information is so readily-available these days that I really think that any family with the will to home-educate is capable of doing so effectively. I suppose that’s probably always been true, but lack of resources certainly isn’t a problem for home-educating families in the 21st century.
Despite enjoying the mod cons of the current day, Barney, George and Freddy are all still enthusiastic about learning Latin. People are always impressed when I mention that we do Latin, but I don’t think it’s a difficult subject really. We like Minimus very much, and the older two have nearly completed Minimus Secundus. I’m thinking about what we should use next - the natural progression would be the Cambridge Latin series, but there are a few other options too.
Freddy is, at his own request, now learning French, though I’m using a range of resources from publishers like Usborne for him, rather than the CGP books I’ve used for Barney and George (though I’ll probably move on to those later). All three - well, four, actually, because Jack does it too - are also using the Rosetta Stone software, which is excellent. I’ve only got the first couple of CDs, unfortunately, and it’s very expensive, so if anyone reading this has a set they want to sell cheaply, let me know! I wouldn’t mind getting the Spanish and German versions of this too - there’s interest here in learning both languages. I took French, Latin and German to O-level, and French to A-level, so I’m not finding those difficult to teach, but if anyone starts on Spanish, I’ll be learning it alongside them - I think I know about three Spanish words and one of those is “ole!”
We’re working on handwriting as a group right now. Writing has never come easily to Barney (I mean the actual letters-on-page bit, not the putting words together bit), and while George has naturally good handwriting, he’s recently been getting a bit… er… well, you could call it creative but you could also call it wild
Freddy has a double-whammy: parents who struggled with handwriting and he’s left-handed. So we’ve been using this site, which has a very different approach to most handwriting resources - it concentrates on the movements needed for comfortable and legible handwriting, rather than repetitive copying.
They are all still fascinated by Roman history, and we’ve a huge range of resources on that now - mostly they’re using Usborne Internet-Linked Romans at the minute.
Barney, George and Freddy read What I Believe together a year or two ago, and the older two have now progressed to Religions of the World, with which I’m very impressed. I’m learning as much as they are from this
They’re enjoying a project on the human body too - that’s been an on-again-off-again interest for some time now - and the older two are using the CGP books on writing fiction too. There are several websites where I collect ideas for writing topics, art ideas, etc - I’m not good at coming up with such ideas myself, so I’m glad to have found those
We’ve also got all sorts of other books here - there always seems to be at least six or seven piles of books waiting to be put away! Our own collection runs into the thousands, and although the local libraries aren’t up much use when it comes to getting hold of specific items, there’s always something to be found there in the way of reading material
We’ve several computers, one of which was built from scratch by Scratchy (heh) with help from Barney and George, and a couple of which comprise bits of hardware salvaged from other computers. The computers are used for quite a variety of things - the boys find it hard to imagine what life was like before computers! We do have and use some ICT workbooks, and although the boys all have a pretty good handle on what they can do with computers, the books do throw up some interesting projects and ideas.
What haven’t I mentioned? Oh, maths!
We do maths fairly traditionally, though since it’s not a subject that any of them struggles with, and since there’s so much maths involved in everyday life, we tend to work through the formal bits quite quickly. With one-on-one, it’s easy to see when a concept is understood or when it needs explaining in a different way, so it’s completely different to teaching maths (or anything else for that matter) to a class.
I think that covers most of what we’re doing right now. Topics come and go, projects appear, and we make the most of whatever opportunities come our way. Looking over what I’ve written, it sounds much more schooly and formal than it is in practice. I understand the concepts behind autonomous education, and actually would really like to be doing that, but what we’re doing now works better for our family in terms of giving our home a positive atmosphere, and it certainly seems to be working in terms of “educational provision”: the boys are learning lots and are enthusiastic about learning. I think that enthusiasm is probably the most important factor, to be honest, and I’m so glad I have the opportunity to spend my days with them and see it in action ![]()
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not related to home-ed, have you seen this? http://www.mumsnet.com/lw/state.html
Yes, have a post in draft about it, trying to eliminate some of the swear-words. Interesting stuff, eh?
Did you see my post on ‘the woman who cannot be named’ yet, Deb?
Re your HE post: I’ve often wondered how you do things in your family, and I think it’s really interesting that you put at the end that you think you’re life is very ’schooley’. I think it sounds very autonomous to me - if one of your boys said they wanted to go to school, and you let them, they’d still be allowed to learn autonomously as what they have autonomously chosen is to learn via teachers in classrooms. If what you are doing is working for all of you, and it sounds like it is, then surely that counts as autonomous. From what I know of you (and I’ve known you cyber-wise nearly since R was born now, I think, from various email lists etc.!), I don’t think you’d continue this way if one of the boys indicated that your family’s way of learning wasn’t working for him, you’d soon change things so that it was…? Autonomous education (in my opinion) doesn’t mean intentionally refusing to do workbooks or ‘normals’, but following your children’s lead (which is what you’re doing) and if workbooks and ‘normals’ are what works for them, then what’s not autonomous about it? Might have to write a post about this on my blog now…
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Re SWCNBN - yes, it was your post that brought it to my attention.
Re a child wanting to go to school - that’s an iffy one here right now, because the local authorities are being funny (and illegal imo) about dereg. So there’d be a lot of talk and consideration before it happened. But I don’t think autonomous education can include school though - I know what you’re saying, but I think going to school is a choice to hand over the decisions to somone else, a choice to give up autonomy.
But yes, absolutely, if things weren’t working, we’d change them - in fact we have, because we found that lack of structure wasn’t working for us. Hm, might have to blog a bit more about that now, because I just remembered something from the other day.
Oh, should also say I don’t think our way is very schooly - bits of it are (planning etc), but I think it sounds far more schooly than it actually is.
[...] I think so, yes. Deb, of NotSheep, has posted about how they do things within their large family. She reckon’s it’s not autonmous, despite agreeing with the principles of autonomous learning, but I disagree. This is part of the comment I left on her blog: [...]
I’d call it ‘eclectic’ rather than autonomous… whereas I’d call mine round-tuit-ic…
Get that draft (draught?!) sorted Missus!!
I’m working on getting a-round-tuit
My thoughts on it are that you can have structure in your day without structuring their education (ie broadly planning what they study) And that would be autonomous education bu not so much autonomous living, unless the child automatically develops structure, which some do but not all, and when you have more than 2 the self-developed structures might not gel…
I’m kinda desperate to develop more structure to our day but I won’t be doing any specific planning of education beyond organising attendance of activities. The structure is more about me having a plan of what I’m doing each day and getting up at regular-enough times for k to not be up ’til ridiculous o’clock…
Agree with you Trogette, re. structure. Absolute autonomy would mean chaos as it’s unlikely everyone’s wishes will fit everyone else’s - although I’m reluctant to get totally involved in TCS, the ideals of common preferences seem to be the best option. Ie. I need a bit of structure, Flopsy would rather we had none at all (being a 3yr old!), so she watches tv. while I do what I have to get done in order to cope, then we move onto doing what we fancy - unless we have a planned activity, which I never force her to do, but then the occassion where I might feel the need to force her doesn’t arise really. We just muddle along, playing it by ear as much as possible (hence my blog name LOL!). And I totally relate to the bedtimes thing - if I don’t coerce Mopsy into having a lunchtime nap, we’re up until after midnight with her some nights
So that’s the only kind of enforced routine we have.
I think it is autonomous cos you are doing it how it works best for your children. It doesn’t sound schooly either.
I think there’s nothing *wrong* with not being autonomous, but I think it’s important to recognise what is and isn’t autonomous education. Planning what someone else will study means that they are not autonomous.